Elisa Gutierrez

Elisa Gutierrez and “I didn’t meet my husband the first day of college. I met a really great boyfriend who over a long time became the person that I was going to spend the rest of my life with.” The actress Elizabeth Banks.Credit...Maggie Shannon for The New York Times On her first day of college, Elizabeth Banks met a cute guy at a party. This was long before her roles in “Pitch Perfect” and “30 Rock.” A lot has changed, but 33 years later Banks is still with that same cute guy.

Jen Poyant and “The more I saw how different my dad was, the more I realized how much he had been hiding. And the problem was the hiding. The problem wasn’t who he ended up with.” Credit...Illustration by Brian Rea Julia Stoller loved her dad. But she never wanted to be him. He was a rule follower, he was so serious, and he was so straight. Then, when Julia was in her 20s, she got a phone call that completely changed her idea of who her father was.

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