Learning how to be a truly interesting person is harder than it seems, but there's a small trick, and that's spontaneity. Making your life and your relationship have special, spontaneous moments that stand out from the rest is important. It can be hard to be spontaneous in life when you have a lot of things to do first, going to work, paying bills, and doing household chores. If you’re a parent, you have to think of your kids and partner — the to-do list is endless.