I have three little girls. By the end of the next decade I will have had three 14-year-old girls. It’s only natural that I’m curious. I want to know what we are really in for. So when the opportunity came up to have an off-the-record chat with year 8 students, I jumped at it. Here are some of their thoughts on friendship, technology and what life is like as a 14-year-old girl in 2025. Violet*, 14. "The bar is so much higher for us than when our parents went to school.