By Jane S. Hall, CSW, FIPA Source: Kaspars Grinvalds/Shutterstock Overheard conversation at Restaurant in Manhattan Ann: “Three years?? You've been going to your shrink for three years!!? What on earth for. I know you're not crazy!” Maria: Not crazy but I feel stuck. I just want to meet someone right for me and yet every time a guy showed interest I ran. I even dated a married man - so yup – And now I'm in psychoanalysis, going four times per week and even using the couch now because it frees me up.