For more parenting stories, (non judgmental) advice, tips and memes, check out Grazia's new parenting community on Instagram, @TheJuggleUK We named our baby Jude after my nan’s favourite saint – the patron saint of lost causes. Born when I was 37 after a year of gruelling fertility treatment, I had picked the name partly as a lighthearted nod to all that, with no idea what the first year of his life would hold for me and so many other new mums.