The trickiest thing about recommending books that are pre-2017 is that it’s a fact of publishing that a lot of books will have gone out of print by now, so just a note that some of these may only be available electronically. (Though I’ve linked to hardcopies wherever I’ve been able to find them. As always, any Bookshop or Amazon links are affiliate.) But they are worth it! Rites of Passage by Joy N. Hensley (2014) - No, I don’t care that you haven’t heard me shut up about this book since 2014.