IF THERE IS one thing that people struggling with fertility issues are good at it is waiting. Waiting for the perfect time to have sex to optimise conception, waiting for that blue line to appear on a test, waiting for appointments, test results, and the outcomes of scans and treatments. Waiting until you are safely home from yet another friend’s gender reveal party before dissolving into tears. When you are undergoing fertility treatment, your whole life is put on hold while you wait.