Getting your Trinity Audio player ready... When Pam Adinoff, 72, was watching the 2025 Sonoma County Pride Parade, she marveled at all of the colors and signs, faces and diversity of representation. But for her, even there among the joy and celebration, the pride and resolve, something was missing. “As a lesbian who has been out in Sonoma County for 53 years, my identity has been really important to me, but I have felt more and more invisible over the years as an aging lesbian,” she said.