Ethical non-monogamy, or ENM, is firmly in its bop era. It feels as though more people than ever are opting to explore relationship and dating alternatives to the traditional monogamous path. As an ethically non-monogamous person that’s still relatively new to the game – around 18 months since I was last monogamous – I know how daunting the world of everything ENM can seem. At first, ethical non-monogamy seemed like a whole new world of acronyms, rules, and boundaries.