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Kitty Winks

(She/Her)
Dublin, London
Covers:  Sex, Dating, Relationships, Polyamory
INACTIVE 📚Co-Author of THE LITTLE BOOK OF ICK @LaurenceKingPub 🖋️feat in @mashable @StylistMagazine @PolyesterZine @feelgoodwoo etc kittyawinks@gmail.com

Kitty Winks’s Journalist Portfolio

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In Defence of Commitment-Phobia - Polyester

In Defence of Commitment-Phobia - Polyester

Polyester Zine — We seldom hear the label 'commitment-phobe' in a positive context. It's a label I am all too familiar with being on the receiving end of. It's loaded, but also not misplaced. Commitment is something that terrifies me. To me, it's synonymous with stagnation.

Are You Cowpoking A Polyamorous Person? - Woo

Are You Cowpoking A Polyamorous Person? - Woo

Woo — Cowpokes are infamous for trying to change open dynamics into monogamous ones - and poly folks have had enough

The Joys of Falling in Platonic Love - Polyester Zine

The Joys of Falling in Platonic Love - Polyester Zine

Polyester Zine — When I first moved to London a little over half a year ago and was romanticising the image of my first great love in the city, it's a solid assumption to make that my new flatmate wasn't exactly what I had in mind. Life is constantly surprising us.

Have non-monogamy labels on dating apps caused more harm than good?

Have non-monogamy labels on dating apps caused more harm than good?

Mashable — In the last months of 2022, the ethically non-monogamous (ENM) community celebrated a huge win. Hinge, a dating app with 20 million global users , launched their 'Relationship Types' feature, allowing their users to mark if they identified as ethically non-monogamous (ENM) or monogamous.

Getting 'the ick' can be surprisingly helpful

Getting 'the ick' can be surprisingly helpful

Mashable — The ick is now an undisputed part of not only our modern lexicon, but our everyday dating lives. You will be hard-pushed to find someone who hasn't been there. You are dating someone, everything is going well, then out of nowhere they do something, which on the surface might be completely inane, but from that point - everything they do utterly repulses you.

How becoming ethically non-monogamous made me confront my ego

How becoming ethically non-monogamous made me confront my ego

Stylist — Skip to content Relationships More people than ever are identifying as non-monogamous. One writer recounts her experience. As an ethically non-monogamous person (meaning I have romantic relationships with multiple consenting people at once), I'm often asked whether or not I get jealous knowing that the people I'm dating are sleeping with other people too.

Dating When You're Easily Ick-ed: A Helpful Guide | Residence 11

Dating When You're Easily Ick-ed: A Helpful Guide | Residence 11

Residence 11 — The Ick is something everyone on the dating scene will be aware of. We have all been there. You start dating someone, it's going really well, then you turn up to your next date to see their legs swinging on a bar stool-it's curtains.

Limitless Love: What I Wish I Knew About Ethical Non-Monogamy

Limitless Love: What I Wish I Knew About Ethical Non-Monogamy

Cashmere Magazine — Cashmere contributor and writer Kitty Winks explains what she wishes she knew about ethical non-monogamy before embracing it.