This story originally appeared on Teen Vogue. Read an excerpt below. *Indicates that names have been changed for privacy. TikTok creator Gabbi Hegedus says she hasn't spoken to her biological father in five and a half years. He had been in and out of her life since she was 3 years old, when her parents separated. When Hegedus went to college, she says he stopped reaching out to her completely. "Me reaching out to him and just never getting a response or a call was hurting me more than helping me.