You’re in a sex drought. We hate to see it, but it happens. Whether your relationship status has recently changed or you’re striking out on the apps, it’s normal to have ebbs and flows in your sex life. Ups and downs are also pretty typical when it comes to your desire for sexual intercourse. Men, women and non-binary folks all experience changes in libido over time. Sometimes, you’re raring to go, and other times, getting in the mood just isn’t happening.