Life today doesn't allow for many guarantees. You could lose your job at any time, your taxes could rise or your child's caregiver could bail. Still, there are certain vows any working mom can make to help her kid feel a lot more stable in ever-changing circumstances. Say them out loud to a school-age child, or mentally file them away until your little one is big enough to understand—and hold you to them. If it’s urgent, I’ll stop what I’m doing.
I'm three-and-a-half years into this working mother thing, and I still get the same crushed feeling whenever I learn that something I want to take my child to takes place during work hours. A playdate and a chance to meet local moms? Tuesday at 10. Library story hour? Wednesday at 3. But if I lived closer to Woodbridge Center, in Woodbridge, NJ, a mall I frequented as a kid growing up in nearby Staten Island, I'd have reason to celebrate their Santa Parade schedule.
Guilt seems to follow working moms wherever we go. At work, we fear we're not pulling our weight because of our family. At home, we worry whether we're giving our spouse and children enough of ourselves. No more! Our roles are hard, and the only way to succeed at both is to spend less time feeling badly about what we can and can't accomplish. Vow with us not to feel an ounce of shame about any of the following.
Muck Rack makes it simple to find people, tweets, or articles that mention any name, keyword, company, hashtag etc. We've compiled this guide to help you make the most of your search.
Selecting a term
Start searching tweets, articles from media outlets, articles mentioned in tweets, journalists'
names, titles and bios with some suggested searches:
Companies or Topics (e.g. iPhone, Microsoft)
Phrases (e.g. "cloud computing") — use quotes to keep the terms together
Twitter handles (e.g. @username) — returns those who have mentioned or replied to
Names (e.g. "David Pogue")
Hashtags (e.g. #sxsw, #london2012)
Bio details (e.g. vegan, Olympics, father)
Muck Rack's Advanced Search allows for many boolean operators.
Find results that mention multiple specified terms, use AND or
+. For example, ensure each result contains both Elon Musk and Mark Zuckerberg by
searching Musk AND Zuckerberg or Musk + Zuckerberg.
Use the operators OR or , to broaden your search when you'd like either of
multiple terms to appear in results. (This is the default behavior of our search when no operators
are used). For example, results will contain either cake or cookie by searching cake OR cookie or cake,cookie
Use NOT or - to subtract results from your search. For
example, searching Disney will yield results about the Walt Disney Company as well as Walt Disney
World Resort. To exclude mentions of Disney World, search for Disney -World or Disney
When using one of these operators with a phrase, enclose it in quotation marks. For example, you can
find results about smartphones excluding Apple's iPhone 4S by searching smartphone -"iPhone
Exact case matching or punctuation
If you're searching for a brand name or keyword that relies on specific punctuation marks or capitalization, you can
find results that match your exact query by adding matchcase: before the keyword you're searching for, like matchcase:E*TRADE .
Use parentheses to separate multiple
boolean phrases. For example, to find journalists talking about having fun in Disney World or
Disneyland, search for ("disney world" OR disneyland) AND fun.
An asterisk can be used to search for any variation of a root word truncated by the asterisk. For example, searching for admin* will return results for administrator, administration, administer, administered, etc.
A near operator is an AND operator where you can control the distance between the words. You can vary the distance the near operation uses by adding a forward slash and number (between 0-99) such as strawberries NEAR/10 "whipped cream", which means the strawberries must exist within 10 words of "whipped cream".