From Redditor u/Healthy-Garage-9150: I'm 29, and I've been freelancing as a graphic designer for about 5 years. I make decent money, cover my own rent and bills, and don't ask anyone for a cent. My family just never really respected it, though; they act like it's not a "real" job. Last weekend was my grandma's birthday dinner, about 20 people at the table. At first they were all chatting casually; out of nowhere, my aunt says, loud enough for everyone to hear: "You still don't have a job?