We’ve all been there. What’s a woman to do when she doesn’t feel her sexiest between the sheets? Our mothers had Dear Abby and we have Dear Abiola. Sexpert and lifestyle coach Abiola Abrams answers your burning questions on love, sex and intimacy. RELATED: What Not To Do During Third Trimester Sex
Dear Abiola, I don’t want to have sex with anybody because I feel fat, disgusting and ugly. If one more person tells me that I have a pretty face I’m going to scream.
Intimacy intervention columnist Abiola Abrams drops some gems on ESSENCE's "Yes, Girl" Podcast on how to handle emotional issues in a marriage and more. Have you ever discovered your significant other or spouse hasn't exactly been faithful? Cheating doesn't always been sexually and sometimes the emotional infidelity can be far worse.
Much of pop culture focuses on the scandalous and the lurid. A significant part of that voice often portrays women of color in a negative light. From reality TV to music lyrics to ill-advised celebs, the issues and challenges of black and Latina women seem to be fodder for entertainment. When entrepreneur Ari Squires decided to create a film, she went in the other direction. Her “No More Chains” documentary is a testament to brave, authentic storytelling.