Life Advice / Health Partner Ready To Move On Despite Boyfriend's Kindness Harriette Cole on Feb 26, 2024 DEAR HARRIETTE: I'm facing a dilemma and could really use your advice. I want to break up with my partner, but I feel indebted to him because of his kindness. He has always been incredibly kind and considerate toward me, going out of his way to make me feel loved and appreciated. However, I recently realized that our long-term compatibility is questionable.