WHAT DO WE feel for the fearful? We pity them, we feel sorry for them, right? These are not the feelings we want our customers to feel for us. We respect and revere the fearless. Don’t we want our customers to respect us? If we are fearful, our customers will feel it. When my son was four, I took him to swimming lessons. The pool was just a big bathtub—a little deeper maybe—but not scary—dad was there. The lady teaching the class kept asking him to blow bubbles in the water. He gladly complied, once.