There is little doubt we all have deep and abiding indebtedness to the men and women who have fought and died for our country. What’s been lost on me, from time to time, is the cascading and profound impact losing a loved one to war has on the moms and dads, brothers and sisters and countless family members. The power of the pain that families go through — and the grace they demonstrate — hit home for me this Remembrance Day. In the summer of 1943, Edna Jaques was touring Western Canada.