Healing Haven for Military Spouses Image New DVS Support Program for NY Military Spouses is Led by Brett Cotter, a Nationally Respected Stress-Relief Expert, Author, and Founder of Stress Is Gone Healing Haven gives Military Spouses a dedicated place to breathe, connect and be supported. We are grateful to Governor Kathy Hochul for ensuring the funding & vision that make this program possible.” — DVS Commissioner Viviana M.