Getty Images Dear Miss Manners: I’ve become lost for words greeting people I interact with on a regular basis — for example, neighbors and store employees. After greeting them with a smile, I ask them, “How are you today?” I’m then met with a barrage of things going wrong in their lives, their financial hardships, and many details of illnesses. I do have a healthy dose of empathy by nature; however, I’m fed up with the negativity and “woe is me” attitude.