‘Divorce’… what do you think of? Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton? JR and Sue-Ellen Ewing? Me too. People with dramatic stories. People whose lives had gone visibly and spectacularly wrong. But my ‘first’ divorce didn’t look like that. A short marriage, I was in my late twenties, with no children, and the break-up wasn’t fuelled by betrayal or a huge row ending in a slammed door. It was quiet.