When husband Doug was coaching sons Ben and Sam in both baseball and basketball years ago, I learned a few things as an outside observer and a fan on the sidelines. First, parents get way too caught up in game, and their child’s performance. Settle down, folks. Your kid is not going to be the next Cy Young pitcher. Secondly, to advance in the game, it took a combination of skill, practice and diligence—on both the players’ and the coaches’ part. It was all about commitment.