Ricardo Ramos and Richard Ruiz were sneaking around on each other in the sweetest possible way. Both men were secretly planning proposals—at the same time. Richard, raised in St. Louis and Chicago, is a film executive, and Ricardo, raised in Ciudad Juárez, is a nonfiction television producer. The couple met at Outfest, an LGBTQ film festival event in Los Angeles, the city that also serves as their home.