A few years ago, while visiting Mwisho wa Lami, my cousin Kizito came to see me. “Bro, as you know, age is not on the side of my mzee, Alphayo,” he began. “He has to visit the hospital every now and then. Since I live in Nairobi, there are times I may ask you to take him. You are the only person he trusts to accompany him.” In 2022, I accompanied Mzee Alphayo to Kakamega General Hospital.