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Dirty talk isn’t always mortifying, but it can – and should – be better
But while some viewers decried such dirty talk as immature, nasty or downright awful, others admitted that they’ve been personally privy to similar one-liners in the bedroom. In fact, some on social media have held their hands up and confessed that lazy or cringeworthy vocabulary in the bedroom is the norm for them. So, why is dirty talk so hard to get right? Is it, as seen so severely in The Idol, because much of it is rooted in sexual clichés rather than the feel of the moment itself?
Dame Arc review: “Yep - this is officially one of the most successful G-spot sex toy shapes out there”
Dame Arc review: “Yep - this is officially one of the most successful G-spot sex toy shapes out there” Hitting the spot perfectly. Spoiler alert: this isn't just a Dame Arc review but the answer to finding your G-spot. Yep, you read that right - trying …
10 Expert Tips To Boost Your Relationship at Christmas - Longevity LIVE
Skip to main content With Christmas fast approaching, this is a joyful time of year for many across the world. As a couple, this can also be one of the most magical times you share. From picking the perfect tree to visiting a festive market to exchanging gifts, there’s an abundance of romantic activities to enjoy at Christmas. Why do couples argue more than usual at Christmas?
10 Expert Tips To Boost Your Relationship During The Festive Season
With the Festive Season fast approaching, this is a joyful time of year for many across the world. As a couple, this can also be one of the most magical times you share. From picking the perfect tree to visiting a festive market to exchanging gifts, there’s an abundance of romantic activities to enjoy during the festive season. Why do couples argue more than usual during the festive season?
Relationship Expert Predicts the Biggest 2022 Winter Dating Trends
Relationship experts Ness Cooper has provided some expert insight into the dating trends we can expect in 2022: 1. Money honey! Known as Cash-candid dating, those who are dating and looking for relationships are more likely to talk about money, particularly due to the cost of living crisis. Affordable dating, and even looking for deals will be looked upon as normal, whereas in the past it may have been criticized. 2.
5 Ways To Have a Healthier Happier Workplace Romance According To An Expert - Longevity LIVE
A workplace romance can add a lot of stress to your life. Not just pleasure. And we all know that stress can place our health and mental wellness at risk. If you are considering a workplace romance or are in one, this post may help you ensure your approach is healthy and has longevity. Why are we sexually attracted to our boss or figures of authority? Having a crush on one of your colleagues is much more common than you may think.
The Experiences of a Disabled Dominatrix
Abstract This paper uses autoethnographic data to examine how sex work and disability converge within commercial female domination and BDSM realms. It explores the nuances around access to healthcare and even internal sex work support when disability is involved. There are few accounts of disability and professional dominatrix work and how it can affect being a successful entrepreneur.
The Psychology of Locktober
The dynamics of locking up When it comes to human sexuality there’s a big focus on pleasure and how it’s controlled, and at times certain acts people enjoy become trends. Male chastity is one form of erotic play that has a large number of reasons behind why someone may engage in it. It can be confusing to fully understand it due to it having many social influences surrounding it and how sexual pleasure is seen at a particular time.
Origami Vulva - The Sex Consultant
Ness Cooper is a Sex and Relationship coach in the UK who works internationally. With a background in both therapy and coaching, she specializes in sex and has over 10 years of coaching experience. Trained with The Family Planning Association, Kinsey, and more. Always striving to never stop learning about human sexuality. She uses an integrated approach that merges person cantered therapy, holistic sex coaching methods, and pelvic floor biomechanics.
How to have phone sex: the ultimate guide to dialed-up dirty talk
Talking provocatively and erotically to a lover can help build intimacy and bonding, but sometimes we can’t find the words for it, particularly when in person. That's why some people prefer the convenience of phone sex as an accessible way to turn each other on. Phone sex between consenting adults can be tied in with an existing relationship, whether long distance or otherwise, and other times it can be enjoyed between two individuals through paid services.
ESWA Sex Work Training For Therapists
Sex Work Therapist Training Call for participants The European Sex Workers’ Rights Alliance (ESWA) is proud to announce the launch of our Sex Work Therapist Training. This project aims to develop and deliver a training on sex work for counsellors and psychotherapists. The training will be developed by sex workers as we believe they are best placed to provide knowledge on their own lived experiences, in collaboration with mental health practitioners (see below for more information about the team).
Relationship Expert Shares 5 Warning Signs Of A Toxic Relationship
Whether its the portal of a couple in your favorite rom-com or a high-profile celebrity romance, toxic traits within relationships are often romanticised in today’s society. Although, finding yourself in a toxic relationship can be detrimental both to your mental health and emotional wellbeing. Relationship expert Ness Cooper at The Sex Consultant reveals the key warning signs of a toxic relationship and how to recover from being exposed to one.
Blood Play CPD - The Sex Consultant
Even as an extremely knowledgeable human sexuality professional, there are still a lot of areas that can lead us to question further. This course looks into the psychological reasons behind blood play and how to talk about blood play when your clients bring it up during sessions. This is a live zoom, and will not be recorded.
Certified Sex Consultant
Enrollment for February 10th is Now Open! Clinical Calls Fortnightly Fridays with access to prerecording Gain a new career and become a qualified sex consultant. This certified course is aimed to teach you how to consult not just individuals on human sexuality matters, but also give you the ability to work with adult industry professionals, journalists, sex toy companies, and more. This 300-hour course is spread over an 18 month period and is taught by sex and relationship expert Ness Cooper.
What is a Codependent Relationship and How Can We Avoid Them? - Longevity LIVE
When in a relationship we all lean on our partner from time to time, so what is the difference between a healthy relationship and a codependent one? As this month is National Codependency Awareness Month Lovehoney teamed up with a relationship expert Ness Cooper at TheSexConsultant to discuss the issue. Cooper explains what an unhealthy codependent relationship is, the signs to look out for and tips for avoiding them. What is a codependent relationship?
Do Relationships Fail?
If you’ve experienced an end to a relationship you’ve probably heard someone respond with a statement similar to this: “I’m sorry your relationship failed.” Rather than being empathic which the individual needs, this phrasing is loaded with judgment and negativity. After someone dives into the failed comments, they often then start stating things like, “You’ll do better with the next one.”, “I know you tried hard but it failed in the end.”.
The land of S*xual Ignorants.
Hello, my darling unicorn, First of all, happy belated Valentine’s Day. If you’re with someone, that’s great. Love is awesome. But happy V-Day especially to those of you spending today on your who are warriors and escaped shitty relationships. You’re all heroes and deserve all the chocolates and bubble baths. And happy V-Day to those who choose to be in relationships with themselves. That’s badass. I love you all. Anyway, enough of that smushy shit. Let’s move on.
Mansplain it to me again and add a cute cat.
There are many important things we need to raise awareness for in the world, and an awareness campaign doesn’t always become as popular as some companies hope. However, the ultimate goal is to still produce something that is supportive, informative, educates, fun, none-offensive and inclusive.
8 Tips to Have Sex with POTs - POTs and Sex Positions
The lighted headiness, the loss of balance, the blackouts, and moments of confusion. If you suffer from postural tachycardia as I do, then you know these symptoms can occur during the most inconvenient times. One of these moments is during sex sometimes, leading to a moment of slight embarrassment. At times I’ve laid in bed and jokingly said to my partner that the pleasure was so intense it made me faint.
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