It’s 4:30 p.m., and the phone of a former superintendent rings. He answers it and greets his son, a middle school principal. He’s on his way home to have dinner with his young family before returning to school for evening commitments. These calls are not uncommon. It’s not just a father/son moment, it’s a healthy downloading of the day’s events and a chance for the building leader to reset and regulate in order to spend time with his wife and children.