I had a dilemma. Father’s Day was approaching, and I had no money to buy my Dad a gift. I knew I could rely on my mother to buy something and have me print my name on the card that accompanied it, but she always did that. I was a big girl now, nearly nine, so I really wanted to do this all on my own. “Okay,” my mother said, “but if you need money, just come to me. Daddy won’t know and wouldn’t care; the gift will still be from you.” But I was a big girl now, so I could buy my own gift.