Sarah Bernstein who does a death belong to? They will say: To whom, to whom does a death belong. To be corrected so early, my words wrong, my understanding wrong, my telling of the past—well. Let me tell you something. It is not me (not I) who needs forgiveness, and moreover I grant none of it. I forgive nobody. On the disputed issues of fact that may or must arise: for what limited, if indeed any, relevance it may have, I favor my own position. To whom does a death belong?