Different spending styles don’t have to mean financial friction Shared goals make smarter tax decisions The right tools help you move forward together My husband and I have totally different approaches to money: I’ve been saving since I was in diapers, while his habits are on the spendy side. Nothing too extravagant — he loves the latest gadgets and prioritizes luxurious experiences and travel, while I’m a thrifter and prefer budget travel and prioritize savings.