Illustration by Meera Lee Patel | Story edited by Brendan Spiegel I thought my mother-in-law, Gail, would die in prison, denying my kids any real time with their paternal grandmother, and leaving me to have hard conversations with my husband, Russell, about things like the cost of flying a body to Georgia from Florida. Sent away in 2008 at age 65, she’d been sentenced to 20 years and 11 months at a minimum-security federal prison — I figured it may as well have been life.