How far should an advisor go to persuade clients to take planning seriously? Darren W. Ulmer, CLP, CLU, had a client who was dithering on writing a will. Knowing that years before this client had a falling-out with his siblings regarding the inheritances from their parents’ estate, the 15-year MDRT member from Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada, asked him when he last got together with his brothers and sister for a holiday dinner. “We don’t,” he responded. “Do you want that for your kids?” Ulmer asked.