Written by Nicole Sheldon, R. Psych. Every child learns and grows at their own pace. Some take off with reading early, others build math skills slowly, some have a hard time writing, and some struggle to learn a concept but once they do, they’ve got it. Some children are quiet observers before they dive in, while others jump in with enthusiasm, but need help slowing down. Red flags are about noticing when a struggle persists and starts to affect your child’s confidence or daily life.