An open marriage isn’t for everyone, but here’s how it works for us Save You have reached your maximum number of saved items. Save this article for later Add articles to your saved list and come back to them anytime. Got it I met my wife at a sex party in November 2021, when I was aged 28. I was in a long-term relationship at the time but we were having a lot of problems. So when my partner’s therapist suggested opening up the relationship, we thought, ‘sod it, why not?’.