Heather Gay is not the type to turn down a good reinvention storyline. The reality star, businesswoman, and mother of three has lived through her fair share of eras, and has shed almost as many versions of herself in the process. If we’re keeping track, there’s: the “good time girl” turning heads at a conservative university, the pious Mormon wife who fit the mold with a smile, and eventually, the outspoken powerhouse who swore off shame and started living life out loud.