Photo-Illustration: The Cut; Photos: Getty When Michelle was planning her Malibu wedding four years ago, she remembers feeling an overwhelming sense of safety and security. My husband has me for life, she remembers thinking. The two met when she messaged him on LinkedIn; she was 23, just starting out her entertainment career in Los Angeles, and he was a C-suite executive who was 19 years older. Michelle wanted to pick his brain. Within weeks, they were engaged.