As the dad of two daughters and a son all younger than 5 with his high school sweetheart, whom he met in accounting class, newly named Cary-Grove boys basketball coach Christian Spandiary knows good things come in threes. Well, those three Class 4A sectional finals that he and his Schaumburg basketball teammates played in from 2010-2012 were an exception. “We lost to an NBA [caliber] player every single year,” Spandiary said.