Let’s cut through the noise. Great sex… the kind that leaves a man lying there thinking, “Damn, I’ll never forget that” isn’t about tricks, toys or porn star theatrics. A lot of women have been misled into thinking that just being there is enough. Most men have had “meh” sex. They’ve had polite sex. They’ve had “I’ll do this because I should” sex. But the best sex ever? That’s a different beast. And it usually comes down to a few very real, very human things. Let me break it down. 1.