16th January 2026 By Tom Logan, a 38-year-old chartered surveyor MARRIAGE isn’t the same for men as women. There isn’t the same trust. Which is why I, as all men should, keep £20k hidden from my wife for emergency shagging. It’s just prudent. After all, so many woman boast of keeping a F**k Off Fund secret from their husbands, in case he leaves her or she needs to strike out on her own. You never know, they say, and quite right too. You never know.